Focus on your Principles & Priorities
“Did you plan on having 6 kids” is the question…
Read More“Did you plan on having 6 kids” is the question i get all the time, usually followed up with and
“Did you figure out what causes that yet?”
The answer is honestly, “NO” to both.
“Did you plan on having 6 kids” is the question i get all the time, usually followed up with and
“Did you figure out what causes that yet?”
The answer is honestly, “NO” to both.
I am an only child and though I loved the thought of having a big family growing up I never really thought I would birth 6 humans, and at that love every minute of the process. I discovered I really was addicted to not necessarily what caused it, but the process of the bringing life to earth. It was not about “figuring out” what caused it; it was more like embracing the timing when you think you are in control and you realize you are not. The “timing method” was what we did not figure out and in fact we resorted to the reality that we are both very fertile and God had a purpose and plan beyond our “timing.” The “principle” that we would not prevent anything from happening with our earthly methods but surrender to being a vessel of His timing allowed us to continually reset our focus from what we thought life would look like and what He wanted our life to look like. We based our life on His principles and priorities of kingdom purpose. We didn’t plan it as it happened yet we could not imagine life more fulfilling as he opened my womb to be fruitful and multiply to fill the earth with Mercer men and women who would grow up living and learning about the good life following Principles & Priorities of Kingdom Purpose.
When life happens much differently than we “planned” we can lose sight of our focus, miss the focus, and even be challenged to re-define our focus.
“Success is a few simple disciplines practiced every day while failure is simply a few errors in judgement repeated every day” – Jim Rohn.
Repeated laser focus builds a foundation that creates wealth in every area of our life; relationships, health, and career.
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“Did you plan on having 6 kids” is the question…
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I’m Kelsey. For decades I’ve walked alongside women through chronic pain, burnout, motherhood, faith shifts, and the complicated in-between seasons of life.
What I know for certain: real change doesn’t come from doing more. It comes from surrendering what we’ve been forced to be to what we really want to BECOME. Aligning with what matters most to experience the “more” your soul craves.

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