About the Guest:

Claudia Bement is an executive coach, mentor, and friend with over 30 years of experience coaching women leaders. She specializes in helping women develop their vision and lead from a place of deep inner and outer alignment. Trained in somatics, Claudia focuses on helping leaders move past burnout by getting out of their heads and into their bodies to navigate today's tumultuous world.

About the Guest: Claudia Bement

Claudia Bement is an executive coach, mentor, and friend with over 30 years of experience coaching women leaders. She specializes in helping women develop their vision and lead from a place of deep inner and outer alignment. Trained in somatics, Claudia focuses on helping leaders move past burnout by getting out of their heads and into their bodies to navigate today's tumultuous world.

In this episode, Kelsey Mercer and Claudia Bement discuss...

The Power of Self-Awareness

Claudia identifies self-awareness as the crucial first phase of the journey toward transformation. She often uses a "Life Line" exercise on a whiteboard to help clients identify the highs, lows, and patterns that have shaped their leadership style.

Somatic Practices and Centering

Drawing from her background as a gymnast and her training at the Strozzi Institute, Claudia uses somatics to help leaders become literate with their "sensing body". She shares a centering tool that focuses on three dimensions: length (dignity), width (boundaries and relationships), and depth (past experience and future commitment).

Healing Trauma in a Relational World

Claudia shares insights from a recent conference featuring experts like Bessel van der Kolk and Gabor Maté, emphasizing that trauma is pervasive and not comparative. She highlights the hope found in neuroplasticity, noting that the brain's pathways can be shifted at any age through consistent focus and commitment.

The Evolution of Women in the Workplace

Having been one of the first women hired in certain professional environments, Claudia reflects on how women previously felt forced to adopt male characteristics to succeed. She now advocates for women to lead as their authentic selves, integrating their sensing side and nurturing connection rather than competition.

Managing Energy, Not Time

Claudia advises listeners to manage their energy because it fluctuates daily. She notes that burnout is often the result of doing "too much of the wrong work" rather than simply having too much to do.

Notable Quotes

"A soft body is the strongest body."

"You are what you practice."

"Burnout, a lot of times, it's not too much work, it's too much the wrong work."

"Manage your energy, not your time."

Resources and Links

The Strozzi Institute

(Somatic Coaching)

Tap
In

 by Poppy Delbridge

The Working Genius

by Patrick Lencioni

The Stockdale Paradox from Good to Great

by Jim Collins

The Untethered Soul

by Michael Singer

Finding Your Authentic Self: A Conversation with Claudia Bement

This episode explores the deep human need to feel seen and heard. Claudia and Kelsey discuss how finding your authentic self is the ultimate key to both personal and professional success, providing practical tools to move from burnout to empowerment.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • How to perform a centering practice anywhere, from the grocery line to the shower.
  • The "1% change" approach to building new pathways in the brain.
  • How to identify your "Free Square"—the natural talents that come so easily to you that you may not realize they are strengths.
  • The importance of vulnerability and curiosity in creating meaningful connections with others.

Episode Timestamps

  • 00:00 Introduction to Claudia Bement
  • 04:06 Claudia’s Background in Journalism and Organization Development
  • 07:37 The Transition from Consulting to Executive Coaching
  • 12:52 Understanding How Your Story Shapes Your Leadership
  • 19:33 A Guided Somatic Centering Exercise
  • 27:12 The Shift Toward Authentic Feminine Leadership
  • 38:58 Key Takeaways from the Trauma and Relation Conference
  • 54:32 What Are You Longing For? Identifying Your Vision
  • 55:48 The Daily Commitment to Loving Yourself
  • 1:13:49 Case Study: Transitioning from "Armored" to "Soft" Leadership
  • 1:25:22 Using the "Working Genius" to Combat Burnout

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Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only. The host is not a licensed therapist or medical professional. The content is not intended as a substitute for professional advice from a qualified expert.

Find Claudia Bement

 For more on her executive coaching and mentorship work, please refer to the show notes or visit her website at claudiamurphy.com to connect directly. 

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